*coughs almost choking* The Jobros heads are normal sized...not sure what pics you've been looking at x.x

Congrats on your successful stalking Driney! lol. Talking to his turtles... mk, I'm going to be a total girl for a sec here: *squeaks* That is so cute! X3

I can't stalk my biker-boy because he hasn't been coming to class! >D

My Wonder-boy doesn't skip class, in fact he get grades that are on par with mine. Around 4.0
Driney happy!!

Nice. Swimmer and smart?! Snatch him up girl! Hurry! XD

...And pray I don't strangle my boy in frustration next time I see him >D

....why is it coincidental that i have been on My local swim team for 9 years and I draw... dragons..... not sure about the dimples though..... And i don't talk to turtles...i talk to myself, We have many good conversations ^^

lol awww! *gives Riikano a turtle*

Okay so I'm just curious what everyone here thinks on this subject. I've been on forum boards and other social networking type sites and have generally found a decent mix of people. I also have found that one topic always somehow makes it into conversation, what guys and girls want in the opposite gender (and sometimes the same gender...not that theres anything wrong with that). Now I don't want to be a very picky person here...but is it me or are the ladies lying? I have met some guys out there that meet the exact standards of what a woman posts online who barely get dates (sadly me included...but for different reasons...I'm picky). Lets be honest here...women look for Tom Cruises of the world with James Bond suave and Bill Gates brain. Okay okay I'm being unfair I know, but I have read alot of the postings out there and they all can be found in your local lovable nerd bins, yet these are the guys that couldnt get a date to save thier life! So c'mon ladies! Save a life ride a nerd!!!!


That said...we should all know by now that most of the young guys are lying about wanting a bookworm girl with a heart of gold. They want....well...blondes with big ones (if you have no idea what I'm talking about...ask your parents). Again I know I'm being unfair...there are some guys out there that are picky and want that smart, lovable girl with a heart of gold....which can also be found in your local lovable nerd bin, yet these are the girls that are hiding behind their books while the other nerds nervously wave from the corner. So c'mon guys quit lying to the poor things...tell the truth, for the truth will...probably get you smacked, but hey at least you told the truth.

Thank you for reading this utterly random rant....feel free to comment.

You nearly killed me with this little rant. Its so funny and true at the same time.

That's entirely true man. Ha ha.

Attraction and Lies threads merged, as they are about the same subject matter. Think the folks in this thread aren't being truthful? Tell 'um here!

Be assured boys! This girl happens to love nerds! Especially considering I am one, lol. I'd honestly have no problem being in a relationship with a guy like that if he was courageous enough to just talk to me; that's half the issue! You boys are too shy :P We girls aren't as picky as you're saying (well me anyway). You could fix the problem by just trying to talk to a girl. I am sooo sick of scaring boys off since my glasses (I guess that's what it is) make me look intimidating or something XD

*breathes* okay...sorry for the mini-rant there X3

Luap wrote:*Snip*

Thank you for reading this utterly random rant....feel free to comment.

You're welcome and I will that the liberty to comment. I told a friend the problem with girls is that they was a whole list of things out of a guy and if he's missing one or 2 they don't want anything to do with him. Which is sad because sure he may not have a hot bod, but that isn't fair to hold it against him and not know the guy. Most girls would rather stay with "Mr. Macho I'm going to sleep with other girls, hit you, and mentally destory you" than be with "Mr. Nice guy". And if a guy is bi that's a deal breaker right there, but you all know all bi's just want to "have fun" and can't form healthy relationships. OK, I'm totally joking about all bi just wanting to have fun and can't form healthy relationships, so don't start flaming me on the last sentence.

False: Big knockers are a plus, but I'm more concerned with her being happy with her own body that having double D's
False: Hair color isn't important

True: A honest girl/boy that doesn't play games and isn't a caca liar.
True: Well if the person can understand and talk about difficult subject matter, like philosophical material, we'll get along fine
True: Reading is a big plus, but if not that's ok.

I'm not picky, as long as the person is interested in me and can handle my rather "odd/weird" dress, thinking and habits and complex life they'll be fine. However most can't. Looks, education, etc is all a bonus, trust me on this one because the people I've liked are far from who you would expect me to date.

BSX wrote:I told a friend the problem with girls is that they was a whole list of things out of a guy and if he's missing one or 2 they don't want anything to do with him. Which is sad because sure he may not have a hot bod, but that isn't fair to hold it against him and not know the guy.

I feel obligated to apologize for my gender. I'm sorry that most are that way but there are some that don't all think like that. I mean sure, I put a little list up here somewhere but I don't honestly expect to find a guy that will match exactly that. I really wish girls were more open-minded when it comes to boys! It's girls like that, that enforce this stereotype to you guys.

Yasashii wrote:I feel obligated to apologize for my gender. I'm sorry that most are that way but there are some that don't all think like that. I mean sure, I put a little list up here somewhere but I don't honestly expect to find a guy that will match exactly that. I really wish girls were more open-minded when it comes to boys! It's girls like that, that enforce this stereotype to you guys.

LOL no need to say...er type? your apology....oops well you already did so thanks. Anyway I know there are some must have's on everyone's list, and even a exception for a guy or who ever you're interested in. the majority of girls I have come across what everything on their list with a check mark by it. I'm all about you being you and won't look down or negatively criticize your lifestyle or choices because A) people did that to me and I don't want anyone to feel that way B) If asked I will offer my opinion in a honest, but non-mean way, C) I grew up with the notion to get to know a person before you judge them, and D) I’ve made some pretty bad choices in my life. I find things rather funny that college was said to be SOOOOOOOO different from high school and people would jump on board to step outside their box and try new things yet they fall right back into their old habits. Not saying I've gotten rid of all my old habits, but I have improved in the area of meeting new people and even made myself out to look like a creep-o, on accident, once which made for a very funny story in philosophy class. Errr I'll stop here I think I'm boring y'all about my life. <<

BSX wrote:LOL no need to say...er type? your apology....oops well you already did so thanks. Anyway I know there are some must have's on everyone's list, and even a exception for a guy or who ever you're interested in. the majority of girls I have come across what everything on their list with a check mark by it. I'm all about you being you and won't look down or negatively criticize your lifestyle or choices because A) people did that to me and I don't want anyone to feel that way B) If asked I will offer my opinion in a honest, but non-mean way, C) I grew up with the notion to get to know a person before you judge them, and D) I’ve made some pretty bad choices in my life. I find things rather funny that college was said to be SOOOOOOOO different from high school and people would jump on board to step outside their box and try new things yet they fall right back into their old habits. Not saying I've gotten rid of all my old habits, but I have improved in the area of meeting new people and even made myself out to look like a creep-o, on accident, once which made for a very funny story in philosophy class. Errr I'll stop here I think I'm boring y'all about my life. <<

Welcome ^^ And you're not boring.
Well yeah, nessescary checks usually end up resulting from deeply rooted convictions and/or morals, in my case anyway.
I must agree with your A, B, C & D. As for college, I'm finding that most go right back to the way the were before especially the preppy girls, who turn from being prep to going greek, it seems *rolls eyes*. Though I'm happy to say I've got my handful of people that genuiely want to be different than highschool days and I must say, it's a great feeling ^^ I think some just slip back into old ways out of discomfort; deep down, they lost their identity when they lost their friends and they're too scared to be different than the way they were in highschool.
lol, I actually just intentionally offended someone in psy today, sucks. I think he knows I was just joking though XD

Yasashii wrote: Welcome ^^ And you're not boring.
Well yeah, nessescary checks usually end up resulting from deeply rooted convictions and/or morals, in my case anyway.
I must agree with your A, B, C & D. As for college, I'm finding that most go right back to the way the were before especially the preppy girls, who turn from being prep to going greek, it seems *rolls eyes*. Though I'm happy to say I've got my handful of people that genuiely want to be different than highschool days and I must say, it's a great feeling ^^ I think some just slip back into old ways out of discomfort; deep down, they lost their identity when they lost their friends and they're too scared to be different than the way they were in highschool.
lol, I actually just intentionally offended someone in psy today, sucks. I think he knows I was just joking though XD

That's good that some people want to change from high school and that you found them. Oh psychology <3! LOL I was very different from in high school, but was low key about it then. My mom said that most of time you'll lose your friends in high school because of the direction they take in their lives and the direction you take in yours, but if you're really friends you'll find a way to keep in contact. She said she made her best friends in college and after she graduated. I'm more open, out-going-ish and just accepted that I'm different and most people aren't going to be cool with it, but those that are will get find I am a very....unique, nice, caring person. LOL one person called me a Emo Diva because I listen to Madonna and Bullet For My Valentine, which I thought was SO funny and replied that I have a glitter razor collection back in my dorm room. That was the running joke all day. I don't intentionally hate college it's just so hardcore about GPA and grades, and need to be more proactive, but I am thankful for the people I've met and that helped me out my 1st year. The reason why I even came back had nothing to do with college, but that being here, in Lexington, is the best thing in my life right now because if I leave and return home the outcome may not be pretty.

BSX wrote:That's good that some people want to change from high school and that you found them. Oh psychology <3! LOL I was very different from in high school, but was low key about it then. My mom said that most of time you'll lose your friends in high school because of the direction they take in their lives and the direction you take in yours, but if you're really friends you'll find a way to keep in contact. She said she made her best friends in college and after she graduated. I'm more open, out-going-ish and just accepted that I'm different and most people aren't going to be cool with it, but those that are will get find I am a very....unique, nice, caring person. LOL one person called me a Emo Diva because I listen to Madonna and Bullet For My Valentine, which I thought was SO funny and replied that I have a glitter razor collection back in my dorm room. That was the running joke all day. I don't intentionally hate college it's just so hardcore about GPA and grades, and need to be more proactive, but I am thankful for the people I've met and that helped me out my 1st year. The reason why I even came back had nothing to do with college, but that being here, in Lexington, is the best thing in my life right now because if I leave and return home the outcome may not be pretty.

lol yeah I was actually scared to death of what to expect in psy but it's going alot better than I thought ^^
Me too actually. I was the bookworm, nerd girl with the glasses that barely said anything. I'm still kinda like that now but talking to other people is getting alot easier than it used to be. True, I don't really keep in good contact with people I knew just a couple years ago. In fact, I'm in better contact with a girl I used to know in 5th grade than people I knew in highschool! I always hear that you make your best friends in college and I hope that's true, I am so tired of fake people >D Emo Diva, lol. Yeah, I listen to Madonna and Bullet for my Valentine too; just try to tell me Hand of Blood is not awesome! Glitter razors, lol, too perfect. Well yeah but it's a little easier if the school's not huge, I think. Mine is a university but it's not massive. hm well if it's bad then maybe it's better that you stay away from home, at least for the time being. I couldn't imagine wanting to go back to a potentially bad situation.

Yasashii wrote:
lol yeah I was actually scared to death of what to expect in psy but it's going alot better than I thought ^^
Me too actually. I was the bookworm, nerd girl with the glasses that barely said anything. I'm still kinda like that now but talking to other people is getting alot easier than it used to be. True, I don't really keep in good contact with people I knew just a couple years ago. In fact, I'm in better contact with a girl I used to know in 5th grade than people I knew in highschool! I always hear that you make your best friends in college and I hope that's true, I am so tired of fake people >D Emo Diva, lol. Yeah, I listen to Madonna and Bullet for my Valentine too; just try to tell me Hand of Blood is not awesome! Glitter razors, lol, too perfect. Well yeah but it's a little easier if the school's not huge, I think. Mine is a university but it's not massive. hm well if it's bad then maybe it's better that you stay away from home, at least for the time being. I couldn't imagine wanting to go back to a potentially bad situation.

That's good the class isn't boring or too difficult. I loved psychology, my teacher related things to now like calling a group of psychologist the Paris Hilton's of their time and asked when Saw 47 or whatever number they were on was coming out. My friends that I made this semester said that I'm all work and no play, which is true, but I do hang out with them after my homework and such is done. Or will bring my assignments over to their house and finish them there. Wow 5th grade! I think there should be a naptime/cookies and milk class in college, bet that would fill up quick! Oh I drop the fake people like a hot stone, and keep on moving. HAND OF BLOOD IS AWESOME!!! I really need to get the EP next time I see it. UK is pretty big, but I do see the certain people all the time and even have class with one of my friends in philosophy. Yeah my mom did come and visit me over this past weekend which was nice, lol of course we had to eat Rafferty's because that what I, Emo Diva, wanted.

BSX wrote:That's good the class isn't boring or too difficult. I loved psychology, my teacher related things to now like calling a group of psychologist the Paris Hilton's of their time and asked when Saw 47 or whatever number they were on was coming out. My friends that I made this semester said that I'm all work and no play, which is true, but I do hang out with them after my homework and such is done. Or will bring my assignments over to their house and finish them there. Wow 5th grade! I think there should be a naptime/cookies and milk class in college, bet that would fill up quick! Oh I drop the fake people like a hot stone, and keep on moving. HAND OF BLOOD IS AWESOME!!! I really need to get the EP next time I see it. UK is pretty big, but I do see the certain people all the time and even have class with one of my friends in philosophy. Yeah my mom did come and visit me over this past weekend which was nice, lol of course we had to eat Rafferty's because that what I, Emo Diva, wanted.

Well it was a little difficult at first but that's my own fault for paying more attention to boys than the class at first, lol. My teacher's got a decent sense of hurmor as well which seems sooo nessescary for psy, lol. Well nothing wrong with a little play now and then! lol I don't really see much of my friends outside of campus though since I'm a commuter. lol, I totally agree though I do have a class that pretty much passes for that. I get so far ahead so quickly that I munch on whatever I brought while I hit up this site or my myspace. I never even pick up the fakers, they annoy me way too much for that XD I acutally first heard it when my sister was playing NFS and I was like, holy crap that's awesome! I end up seeing alot of the same people around campus since we all run in our circles from schedules etc. Well that's good ^^ lol, I can never decide where to eat so I usually just go with whatever. I'm fond of mcd's fries, acutally lol. Are you honestly emo or just in the standing joke?

Yasashii wrote: Well it was a little difficult at first but that's my own fault for paying more attention to boys than the class at first, lol. My teacher's got a decent sense of hurmor as well which seems sooo nessescary for psy, lol. Well nothing wrong with a little play now and then! lol I don't really see much of my friends outside of campus though since I'm a commuter. lol, I totally agree though I do have a class that pretty much passes for that. I get so far ahead so quickly that I munch on whatever I brought while I hit up this site or my myspace. I never even pick up the fakers, they annoy me way too much for that XD I acutally first heard it when my sister was playing NFS and I was like, holy crap that's awesome! I end up seeing alot of the same people around campus since we all run in our circles from schedules etc. Well that's good ^^ lol, I can never decide where to eat so I usually just go with whatever. I'm fond of mcd's fries, acutally lol. Are you honestly emo or just in the standing joke?

I was thinking about this the other day, but I would have to say I'm not emo, but have emo-tendencies. The diva part is true, but I'm a kind diva not a meanie b*tch diva like well just about any hollywood celebrity. LOL my friends don't go to college right now, one dropped out way before I met her, but I think that me being in college is motivating her to go back. I want to be in naptime/cookies and milk class! For now I'll continue to eat McD's and such but when the time comes I plan on switching to a flexitarian diet.

BSX wrote:I was thinking about this the other day, but I would have to say I'm not emo, but have emo-tendencies. The diva part is true, but I'm a kind diva not a meanie b*tch diva like well just about any hollywood celebrity. LOL my friends don't go to college right now, one dropped out way before I met her, but I think that me being in college is motivating her to go back. I want to be in naptime/cookies and milk class! For now I'll continue to eat McD's and such but when the time comes I plan on switching to a flexitarian diet.

hm, same here though I actually went full-emo at one point where my life was really messed up due to relationship issues. Well, that's good. Some seem to forget that there's too side to the word diva, hollywood-diva and then just style-like diva, lol. The majority of the people I know are in my college or elsewhere in the state. Yeah! Get her motivated to go back! Hey, you can always get a better job with a degree. lol, I'm just lucky to have one, I would die of hunger if I didn't have that class XD Define flexitarian. I don't believe I've ever heard that and I'd prefer to hear from someone who knows ^^