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Yep. Now I know much better.

I assume you don't feel the same way? D: You sound like you're disagreeing with what I've written ^^

Shesang, I love your signature

I'm not quite sure what my type is yet, which is akward seeing as I'm 18 and haven't had a Girlfreind yet. Always receiving a lot of hell for that fact. I live in a small town and everybody just seems to be a copy of one another.

SoulBeaver wrote:I assume you don't feel the same way? D: You sound like you're disagreeing with what I've written ^^

Who am I to disagree? You're allowed to like what you like. I have no opinion.

Wakboth wrote:Shesang, I love your signature

Thanks very much. It's from "Three Wishes" by The Pierces.

Well they're al plenty of new people here after this threads 7 month coma. I'm interested to se how everyone feels now that some time has passed.

- Has to be a pragmatist. I'm not dealing with anyone high maintenance.
- Funny without being childish. Well, I can deal with childishness, but a childish person.
- A violent, independent streak. Not crazy, but assertive.
- Has a distinct personality. Nothing irks me more than meek and bland people.
- Is somewhat involved in the arts.
- Reasonably intelligent.
- Has culture! Culture is a must.
- Doesn't dress like a whore!... most of the time.
- On the flip side, isn't prudish.
- Physical appearance really depends. I like unique people more than bleach-blonds caked in makeup.
- If they dye their hair, awesome.
- Is decently in shape. Chubby is better than anorexic, though.
- Is not overtly narcissistic but has a sense of style. There's a fine line there. A big fuzzy fine line.

I find I'm attracted to Mexicans and Redheads, too.

Well, let's see now... For me to be attracted to someone she'd likely have to have a few of these traits:

- I love socially awkward people. Mainly because I'm the type of guy that would rather walk 50 minutes than stop a cab and do 15 for a ride to school.

- Preferably into something I like. Soccer works, but I'd rather it be role-playing or general geekdom.

- On the previous point, geeky girls get major points in my scoreboard. A few extra if she's into anime, though not to the point of debating whether Sasuke or Kakashi's hotter... o_o.

- The least she likes to dance, the better. Techno is an odd exception.

- Smart is good, preferably not too far from myself; I don't mind her being smarter.

- I like quirky, but not batshit crazy. A little crazy still works...

- I like down to earth but not being flamed at u_u.

- Decent plix. I'd first go for the girl in the corner fixing a microwave with a spork and gum than the 34C whore.

- Witty, I lurve witty.

- Physically, I may sum it up in a single point. I don't care so long as certain things aren't physically impossible or gross. I'd rather her complexion be medium or a little above average than having somebody with a BMI just on the healthy line ('cause those fuckers that designed BMI calculators don't know what they're talking about.)

I did this but then Internet explorer backed out. :/

First off I will start with the physical qualities that I generally find most attractive (None of these are a must, but in general):

I generally prefer darker hair color, Brown or black.
Blue or grey eyes most of the time but other colors are fine as long as they catch my interest.
This may come as a shock to some people but I prefer pale (Fair) skin.
Shorter than me is best. (I am 5'10")
Around my age or younger. (I'm 20)
Freckles = my kryptonite
Body type is balanced. If you have the top you need the bottom.
Also doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous for me to like her. Just as long as I find her attractive in some way.

Non-physical traits:

Enjoys hanging out with friends. (But not only what she wants to do)
Enjoys hanging out with just me. (Ditto)
Is in a good mood most of the time.
If she isn't in a good mood then she will let me try to make her smile.
Someone I can actually make smile.
Will try things with me even if she think she doesnt like them (Not what you are thinking. I am talking like playing games and martial arts.)
Although it would be perfectly fine with me if she liked the things that I like.
Has sense and smarts. (Honestly, I am tired of dumb people.)
Honest espically if asked something.
Fun, even crazy.
Creative (Being artistic is a plus)
Down to earth.

Let me first start out by saying that I am strictly anti-love, not because my heart has been broken several times, but because I've had to break several hearts. You see, I feel very miserable when I'm in a relationship and I don't know why, and instead of trying to figure it out, I've just given up, and whenever I feel like slipping someone my contact info I just tell myself 'NO'. It was hard at first, but now I'm a master. However, if I was looking for a relationship, this is what I would look for:

-I like girls kind of chubby, with a sweet-and-innocent vibe to them.
-Bonus points if they can write poetry.
-And if they're environmentalists who care about animals. I don't give a rat's hat about either, but I find this sort of concern endearing in others.
-In guys, I look for someone emotionally strong, who can take care of himself and lets me come and go as I please, someone who isn't clingy and needy, like those guys who are really just looking for a girl who will act as their second mom. (EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. So far, at least. I think this is why I can't form a solid relationship.)
-Must be intellectual.
-And willing to limit kissing to a prolonged peck on the lips. I'm sorry, but being choked with tongue is really gross.
-BONUS POINTS: if he's horrifically scarred from government experimentation and/or torture, but not battle, 'cause I'm not into those macho guys. But I know that's kind of thing is near impossible to come by, and even still, in reality his mental trauma would get in the way of my twisted fantasy, so uh...y'know what, just forget it.

Okay, so most people know me as that-tough-sexy-dude-over-there-who-will-murder-your-whole-family-just-for-breathing-on-me-type-of-guy. (True Story by the way), so it may come as a slight surprise as to what type of girls I like.

So, here come the looks:
Gotta be shorter than me, though my preferred height for a lady is around 5'4"-5'7" I'm 6'3" btw.
I like natural beauty, so when it comes to the hair, just let it hang down. Don't do any freaky shit with it, liken putting it into a bun, or doing pig-tails. ESPECIALLY NOT BRAIDS OR PONYTAILS. That pisses me off just to even look at it.
Something about brown eyes turn me off, I don't know what it is, but they just do. There are some exceptions though, considering my little lady has 'em, emphasis on little. Jesus Christ on a stick, she's like 5'1" and I'm 6'3"
Glasses don't really bother me much, but I do enjoy seeing what they look like without 'em on their face all day long.
Boobs matter, no questions asked. If your boobs are the equivalent to the landscape of Chicago then something's wrong. They don't gotta be huge, but they gotta be at least in proportion and large to some degree.
The ass...uh....let's see here...ah shit. The ass matters 50% of the time with me. Sometimes, I'll look at a girl's face, or the clothing, or just her general body-type and expect to see a nice ass and then end up disappointed. But, yes they only matter 50% of the time, and I don't know why, because I'm weird like that.
I don't want my woman to dress like some skankified skankerella skankoid with her vagina that looks like she just got boinked with a wrecking-ball showing. I prefer girls that wear clothes that hug their body, so I can see an outline of the curves, the shape, etc., etc., and it also feels good to hug something wearing soft, velvety, silky clothes. (Preferences include striped t-shirts, and something with a type of design on 'em. It emphasizes both their style and their body. It's a win-win.)

Now onto the thing that supposedly matters more than looks, that you hear everybody say on television, because they're too sad to get someone they actually like.

Personality:
I like the sweet, kind-hearted girls, that'll give me compliments when they're due in, because I need to be reassured sometimes. I'm not saying worship me, I'm just saying acknowledge me when I've accomplished something, or achieved something that no one else could.
It works both ways, because I like to compliment my women as well. The little blush that appears on their faces when I do it is very contentful, and self-satisfying.
Every girl has their secrets. And I want to know them. =) Though I can't say figuring them out on my own isn't fun either. If there's one thing psychology has taught me, it's that people aren't simple; they're puzzles, and I enjoy putting the pieces together out of self-curiosity.
If you're an animal-lover, well it better be a dog, because I have a tendency to hurl cats across the room when they scratch me. Fuckers walk around like they own the place.
Share my nerd-life with me. Embrace the anime, the hentai, the video-games, the shows on national geographic that depict reincarnated long-neck dinosaurs manifested in Thai-culture. Cosmology also, I love that shit, and it's even better if they like it as well. It's hard to find a girl that's into science these days.
I love adventurers, but I also love couch-potatoes. Swimming in a lake is fun, and so is playing video-games, and all the other crap I mentioned above. Romance I can do, but not that classy frenchy biggity bullshit on a stick. It's gotta be fun while meaningful at the same time. You can't have the salt without the pepper or the fried chicken without the mashed potatoes and gravity; male without the female, etc. But, yes, I do enjoy sessions of love-making, closure, hugging, affection, kissing, all that shit, even if it doesn't lead up to sex.
I enjoy discussing serious topics, debates, philosophy, etc , with my girl, all that intelligent stuff. Be it spirituality or something scientific. Doesn't matter how slow you are at it, so long as I know she's trying.
Show me your interests too, it's not all about me, and besides, I like surprises.
If you can tell me a story, I will love you forever. -Loves listening to stories.- Especially horror-stories, with some fucked up, twisted, ending. Don't be afraid to go balls-out...uh...boobs out. =)
Don't be afraid to tell me what's on your mind, because I'm good at making people feel better with my twisted sense of humor.
I will put my life on the line if I think my girl is in danger, end of discussion. Broken legs, arms, nose, forehead, broken erection, none of that shit matters to me if I see the potential of her getting hurt. Besides, I like playing the hero.

Anyway, this is getting long, so I'll use some keywords to sum it up.

Equality
Shared interests
Likes to dabble in a little bit of everything
Comes to me for help when she needs it
Grants me the freedom that I've been longing for my entire life.

These apply to both males and females

Non Physical
-Sense of humor. God lord, I so very much dislike people who take things and themselves too serious. Life isn't permanent, stop and laugh at the fart jokes. (Also needs to know when fart jokes are inappropriate.)
-Intelligent. No, I don't want an academic genius for I'm certainly not. However, when I IM them I expect full sentences and someone who knows what words like detrimental and oligarchy mean.
-Patience. I was in an abusive relationship and suffered all kinds of abuse, the likes of which I'd rather not get into. Being physical takes time for me and has to be done in steps, not every base all at once.
-Eccentric
-Geeky. I like geeks. I also like goth-y people seeing as I'm a bit goth-y too. If you're both, that's awesome.
-People who don't bitch and moan. I've had a hard time in my life, and maybe you have too. However, I learn to deal. We all have problems, you get through them. People who incessantly cling to their problems are a total turn off.


Physical, male and female
-My age or older. I'm a firm believer in the whole "age ain't nothing but a number" phrase but I generally dislike people my age or younger.
-Taller than me.
-Not a big fat lard
-Not an ass face


Female
-Slightly androgynous, I like boyish girls.
-Short hair. I love love love love short hair on girls.

Male
-Long-ish hair. I don't like short or bald hair, you have to have the face for it.
-Glasses. It really depends on the guy but guys who can pull it off are so hot. X3

I thought the list would be longer. Eh, I suppose not.

Basically what I look for in a guy is their height for one, I’m a pretty short person and I don’t really enjoy people around my height. Um, I’m not sure, I don’t really care as long as he isn’t a passive aggressive douchbag but isn’t a big softy either. I don’t like overly sensitive guys either but I do love a hero. I also enjoy guys that don’t get all mad or upset with everything I say, I can’t stand that. I also love it if they love to snuggle and push me into waters that I’d rather not venture (topics, examples, memories, etc). If they allow me to teach them, I’ll allow them to teach me. And you know, I don’t want to be a strict or bitchy and controlling or anything like that. So I’m cool with letting the guy so and say whatever he wants as long as it’s not in the cheating or flirting with other women field. Looks? Probably glasses, or beard or something, but otherwise I don’t care. Blue eye'd guys with blonde hair is something I never really favourerd however. Something about that just gets no my nerves, and people who dye their hair or do it constantly also gets on my nerves so yeah. But darker hair is usually my type.

Either way, it doesn't matter. I've got Alucroas.

Personality wise, what I find attractive in a guy is firstly a sense of humor. I honestly couldn't stand to be with a guy who couldn't take the stick out of his rear so to speak. I guess I just feel more comfortable around guys who don't take themselves so seriously. That being said, I couldn't stand to be with Mr. all fun all the time either. I find a guy who can be serious when he needs to be, but can loosen up and be funny extremely attractive.

Intelligence I think is important to a point. I think it would be great to be able to talk about things that interest us both on a higher level of intelligence, (I for one have always been fascinated by European and colonial history) but I'm not going to throw away a relationship with someone who makes me happy just because we don't find the same things interesting.


Looks wise, I find guys with brown or hazel eyes have almost always been the ones i've crushed on, so I suppose that would be my preference. As for hair color, I always thought dark hair to be attractive, but red hair just makes me melt.


Most important to me however, is a guy who's not playing games. I'm not interested in romance drama in real life (I read and write about enough of it) and nor am I looking for a guy who wants a girlfriend to push around. By no means am I saying all guys are like that, but I've seen a lot of friends (more than I care to admit) get into physically and mentally abusing relationships, and I have no desire to do the same. Mostly a good guy who's in it for the long haul that I know I can trust is what I find attractive.

Well I'm already taken by someone. I love him very much, but I notice as when we've been together I notice a lot of things I've found attractive in personality. I think in a way as I took on new relationships I find out that as I discover little something more about myself with each relationship I find whats attractive to me.

Personality:
-I like a person who's intellegent who can out smart me when I play games.
- A stabble mind I don't need someone who can't uderstand the difference between a video game and the real world.
- Someone foward. Who doesn't hesitate to say when I'm doing something wrong and who doesn't mind expressing themself. I don't like it when they hide there emotions its not healthy.
- Someone who makes an attempt to understand what we ladies go through. I'm talkin about how every once awhile we ladies have an unstable moment every so often. Its a real turn off when men don't make an attempt to understand a ladies's feelings.
- Now this one is very important to me. I'm a bit on the non (out-going) side so I need someone to encourage me a bit. You know help me a bit more to give me a little push on doing something.
- No liers! I don't like people who lie frequently it makes you seem guilty and untrust worthy. If you wanna go out with guys that's fine go ahead no need to lie. Just be careful and I wanna hear about it later on. I like to know how much fun you had.
- Creative. I like a guy who's creative it doesn't have to be drawing it can be anything from cooking to music. (My man he cooks he got triple points for that. X3)
- A bit of confidense. You know confidense to do something that we never done before, but not overly confident that it effects his thinking.
- Can look beyond appearance. Someone who looks beyond apperance in both parties.
- Please don't sag that's very unattractive. I hate that a guy sags you look like peguin.

Appearance
- I like guys with glasses I think they're cute, but if you don't thats ok.
- Light eyes. They're super sexy and any color.
- I like my men a bit fluffy not overly fluffy, but fluffy I need something hug on.
- Hair doesn't matter short or long I like it all.
- A small bit of peach fuzz on the chin is fine, but no mustach or can be clean shave.

I think that's it. =3