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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Yasashii on Sun Oct 05, 2008 6:57 pm

1. heck no. I've overheard boys anywhere from ages 16-22+ still talk about girls, which ones they think are hot or which ones to avoid, lol.

2. I need something I can swing *ninja*
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Relax and Play on Sun Oct 05, 2008 8:48 pm

I meant I'm the one who doesn't easily do talk about girls in that sense. (Which one's hot, which one's not, etc.)
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Yasashii on Sun Oct 05, 2008 9:57 pm

Ah, I had it backwards XP

No, I don't think you're off for that. I mean, you still think those things right? If you're like me, you like to talk about the opposite, it's just that sometimes you don't if you feel like people will judge you for it.
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Postby Relax and Play on Sun Oct 05, 2008 11:31 pm

I mean, you still think those things right?


Yup, sure do! :lol:

Anyways - I'm roughly the same way, though anywhere beyond family chatter I'm not so comfortable.
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Yasashii on Mon Oct 06, 2008 6:47 am

Hey, don't sweat it. It took me the longest time to realize people feel the same way I do about getting critisized. College is actually easier than middle & high school because there's not so much peer pressure and everyone is starting off the same as you so people aren't as afraid to be open.

The thing you just have to remember is be whoever you are. An original is always more appreciated than a copy.
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Riikano-Alinaris on Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:12 pm

Ok first Question.

Me and My previous Girlfriend just Broke up..... but she still LOVES me but we stay best Friends though (Good Breakup) But just because she still likes me i will tease around with her a bit (Shes somewhat of a pervert....yeah lucky Me) I'll just rub her leg or something of the sort when we sit at lunch (no i don't go to far) She likes it but I canb't help than to look for another girl..... After the breakup I realize that alot of Girls are looking at me, and "other" things..... How can i tell if they really like me or not?
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby AHeartlessNobody on Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:18 pm

They'll most likely play around with you and try to make you laugh. If they stare at you for more then thirty seconds thats a sign to. If a group of them starts giggling looking at you, that could be a good sign, depending on the girls.

I have the same question. How do you know when a boy is flirting with you?
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Postby Riikano-Alinaris on Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:39 pm

Ok most girls should already know this but, this is how you know..... Top 6 Ways to tell


1. If he is constantly hanging around you

2. If he stands up for you in an argument with friends or when people make fun of you

3. If he constantly gives Compliments on things you do...Ex: If you make a point for your team and hes on it, you might here "Amazing shot, Way to go!, or something along those lines...

4. If he also stares at you for more than 30 seconds... And you must also emphasize on where...
Private Parts= All guys do it get over it/ You in Particualar= He likes you/ Moves his eyes around all of you= loves you

5. If he wants to be a partner for a project or something of the sort (Not always a sign but If he jumps up and does Hurdles over desks to get to you first, then there is a good possibillity.

6. Attitude wise... if your a bitch he'll be one too but he'll secretly love you....if your a pervert/dirty girl, he might become overwhelmed at the openness and blush....or he'll spank you..... If your normal He'll Be normal but he'll be a bit over friendly.

Ok there you go..... Now this is a question I've ALWAYS wanted to know.....
So why do Girls fall in love with guys? I mean we can be immature....perverted...and well in serious terms, we don't conceive a child!, So i've always wondered why women love men when the amount of work between genders is obbviously unfair? (Not telling girls to be lesbians though...)
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Postby AHeartlessNobody on Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:45 pm

LOL, well I guess we can't really help it. We get along with someone and we like them. We soon fall in love with them. It's just sort of a pull that we can't help.

Ugh! A guy spanked me today and I had to give him a bloody nose.
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Riikano-Alinaris on Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:50 pm

Well than that Means I know of a Little HeartlessNobody that has been a bad Girl XD
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby silvernekokitsune on Mon Oct 06, 2008 3:11 pm

uhm...for me right now the reason i fall "in love" with guys is 1) hormones or 2) theyre my best friend so i tend to start to like them a little "too much."
i cant help it, im flirtatious by nature (i dont mean im slutty im just kinda perverted...) but it doent matter cuz im really ugly :p ....:) its still fun to flirt though
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby TwilightShade on Mon Oct 06, 2008 3:26 pm

Yasashii wrote:All this makes me want to jump in ^^

This chica here likes the following in a guy:
~ dark, longer hair (most guys would just look so much better if they stopped cutting their hair so short!)
~ repect for girls (if he simply holds the door open, it's enough for me)
~ open-ness (for heaven's sake there are some girls that aren't going to blab everything you tell them guys!)

and most importantly

~ the desire for something serious not just 'let's date for a month cause I'm bored' XD


No bf here for this girl even though I'm one of the odd ones that likes and can actually play video games, lol. But there is this one guy in my class that I like. I finally got the nerve to talk to him the other day and thankfully, he didn't just blow me off.

Now if a guy around here would be so kind as to answer this: What can I do to start forming a friendship with him? And not in a flashy, superficial way.


It would help if you could elaborate a little more on the personality and interests of the guy you're mentioning, but I'll give it my best shot anyways.

From what I can tell, there is a good chance that he doesn't have a crush on you, but I could easily be wrong. Basically, you want to initiate casual conversations with him. Don't corner him or pressure him for any answers, but try to learn more about him through what he says. Also, don't ask all of the questions, but if the conversation is dying, try to save it.

One thing he might appreciate is if you wave to him and say hi each day. A little kindness and an open mind can go a long way.

To summarize, at this point in the game, you're trying to find out how he feels about you, and what he's like. If you enjoy what you find, keep going and try to get him to open up. Otherwise, keep looking.
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Yasashii on Mon Oct 06, 2008 3:54 pm

Riikano-Alinaris wrote:Ok most girls should already know this but, this is how you know..... Top 6 Ways to tell
Now this is a question I've ALWAYS wanted to know.....
So why do Girls fall in love with guys? I mean we can be immature....perverted...and well in serious terms, we don't conceive a child!, So i've always wondered why women love men when the amount of work between genders is obbviously unfair?


Because there are too many cute boys, lol and women are just programmed to match up with men. Aside from that, one thing I really like about guys is the fact that they don't detail everything to death and make things more complicated than they have to be. Guys are just fun to hang out with.


TwilightShade wrote:From what I can tell, there is a good chance that he doesn't have a crush on you, but I could easily be wrong. Basically, you want to initiate casual conversations with him. Don't corner him or pressure him for any answers, but try to learn more about him through what he says. Also, don't ask all of the questions, but if the conversation is dying, try to save it.

One thing he might appreciate is if you wave to him and say hi each day. A little kindness and an open mind can go a long way.



Not sure what to say about his personality. In conversation he said he wants to do something in the medical field (didn't ask for specifics since I didn't want to question him too much) and he owns a motorcyle, most likely a sport model but not sure what kind (he brought the helmet into class).

Definitely trying to work on the kindness thing but it doesn't help when his other class runs long alot so he shows up to psy (the class we're both in) late XD

Our one conversation was fairly mutual, we both asked questions etc. and there weren't any big awkward pauses ^^

Would it be too much to ask his friends about him? Or wait on that?
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby TwilightShade on Mon Oct 06, 2008 4:36 pm

Yasashii wrote:
Riikano-Alinaris wrote:Ok most girls should already know this but, this is how you know..... Top 6 Ways to tell
Now this is a question I've ALWAYS wanted to know.....
So why do Girls fall in love with guys? I mean we can be immature....perverted...and well in serious terms, we don't conceive a child!, So i've always wondered why women love men when the amount of work between genders is obbviously unfair?


Because there are too many cute boys, lol and women are just programmed to match up with men. Aside from that, one thing I really like about guys is the fact that they don't detail everything to death and make things more complicated than they have to be. Guys are just fun to hang out with.


TwilightShade wrote:From what I can tell, there is a good chance that he doesn't have a crush on you, but I could easily be wrong. Basically, you want to initiate casual conversations with him. Don't corner him or pressure him for any answers, but try to learn more about him through what he says. Also, don't ask all of the questions, but if the conversation is dying, try to save it.

One thing he might appreciate is if you wave to him and say hi each day. A little kindness and an open mind can go a long way.



Not sure what to say about his personality. In conversation he said he wants to do something in the medical field (didn't ask for specifics since I didn't want to question him too much) and he owns a motorcyle, most likely a sport model but not sure what kind (he brought the helmet into class).

Definitely trying to work on the kindness thing but it doesn't help when his other class runs long alot so he shows up to psy (the class we're both in) late XD

Our one conversation was fairly mutual, we both asked questions etc. and there weren't any big awkward pauses ^^

Would it be too much to ask his friends about him? Or wait on that?


Asking his friends might not be a bad idea, but you don't have to. I'm considering doing the same thing in my situation, although my questions are slightly different from what you'd want to ask. If I do end up doing so, I'll tell you how it goes.
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Yasashii on Mon Oct 06, 2008 5:14 pm

I'd love to hear if you do end up asking and thanks for the advice ^^


I feel like I'm invisible to him. It's so frustrating XD
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Riikano-Alinaris on Mon Oct 06, 2008 6:03 pm

Well i can tell you one thing Yasashii Never Pretend to liike something he does EVER..... And another thing....I f you can why don't you ask his Friends for His Number and give him a suprise call if your lucky you to will be able to hit off a chat... Or you could try out for an extra curricular activity he's in turns out you might like it.....

Man i never thought girls and Guys would share this kind of talk... Man this is awesome!
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Postby Yasashii on Mon Oct 06, 2008 9:15 pm

Oh I got that one. I hate when people pretend to like what others like >D

I actually hadn't thought of that... I totally flake out when it comes to phone calls though but I may try it ^^

Yeah I know ^^ Conversations like this are always cool.
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Re: Attraction? ( )

Postby Relax and Play on Mon Oct 06, 2008 9:32 pm

I hate when people pretend to like what others like >D


Agreed. It's not a genuine interest if you're just staging something for someone else's sake.

I actually hadn't thought of that... I totally flake out when it comes to phone calls though but I may try it ^^


Phone calls are hard for me as well, then again, I've forgotten when I last used a phone. >_<

Man i never thought girls and Guys would share this kind of talk... Man this is awesome!


Yeah I know ^^ Conversations like this are always cool.


I wouldn't pass up an open conversation like this up if it crossed me. :D
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