Ok......Alot of people have to admit that they always wondered "Gee i wonder if the girl/guy i like has a crush on me too....well i can't help you with your love life but I just wanted to see if people would tell what they would consider attractive in a man or woman, I just wanna see what men and women REALLY think is attractive or "Hot", and not what your pals and buddies make up to make you feel better XP..... oh and don't say "Certain" body parts because.....we all know what they are XD

Ok well in a woman i look for several things...

1. Shy but sweet (Think Hinata Hyuga's attitude)
2. Musical
3. Decently Smart
4.Humble, she knows what she wants and is not spoiled
5.she is Tall or Medium height......i'm 15 and 5' 11 so yeah thats why XP
6. Decently or very attractive
7. Dirty blonde or Brunette
8. Likes to Draw
9.....i don't know why but when a girl blushes i think it's really cute
10. Gentle
finally 11. the obvious reasons XD

I like funny guys, you know someone who I can really have fun with
Black hair or Blond
I love blue eyes
Someone who is sweet and understands

Good for you Siren you know in fact good foer both of you....it makers me very happy when people open themselves up to one another.

Me,
Im not sure in a guy.But i know when they have broad Shoulders,thats a deep turn on


~Broad Shoulders
~Shorda tough like
~Hangs all over me
~Not care in hair,eyes anything


There is one guy in my class,God.he turns me on everytime i think of him

What I look for in a woman is.. Well nothing ^^.

I have Rozwell, and that's everything I wanted and more ^^.

Having never really experienced that strnge feeling called love (honestly, I just haven't), I can't tell for sure, but things I find very appealing in a girl are:

- Brains, seriously, who'd want to spend time with an absolute puff-brained idiot ? Man guys, I know, but I demand some brains.
-Humour, again, she's got to be funny.
-Hair-colour-wise, I don't have any particular wats or not, but redheads are a real turn on to me ... And wavy or curly hair as well ...
-Any style that isn't in great fashion, I can't stand those sheep that just follow the general fashion like everyone else. A bit of individuality dammit !
-Well, I'm an adolescent boy, good looks help, but I don't abide by all of society's current criteria of "good-looking" and "bad-looking".

There is no such thing as love without some sort of physical attraction; it must exist in some amount in order for the love to be real. Thus, I think looks goes without saying. I don't have any specific tastes in what a girl should look like, but I tend to lean towards the thinner ones, like most people, and lately, I've been crushing on girls with blue eyes, and noticing them when they're a vibrant blue hue. So I guess that helps. Oh, and to get the barely SFW stuff in now, boobs should exist, but I shouldn't mistake them for pillows. I personally don't care about butts and whatnot.

Other than looks, legitimacy is of extreme importance to me. I want to play the game legit; no cheating, no "clever ways around", and nobody outside of a socially acceptable age range. If you can't win the game normally, then either suck it up or improve until you can. I hate people that are in it just for looks, or just for sex. To me, that is empty-minded and disgraceful.

Personality and Intelligence come second for me, with both being of equal and significant importance. If you are a jackass, then I'll simply be a jackass back. If you are dumber than a rock, then it's almost certainly a deal breaker in my mind. What you give is you get, and if you can't keep up, then improve and try again.

Next is work ethic. They have to be able to have fun and be relaxed, but also know when it's time to sit down and get work done. If they hate school and don't bother trying, then it tells me that they won't make the effort in other areas of their life.

Interests and willingness to accept that what I like to do is most likely different from what they like to do is a must-have, but I haven't bothered to check its importance to me. Seeing as I've never had a girlfriend, it'll be quite some time before I learn what I truly want.

Minor bonus points for: Voice, Taste in music, and other stuff that I can't think of at the moment.

So all in all, that may sound really strict, and probably makes me seem rather cold and uncompromising, but I can usually overlook things unless they're deal-breakers like I mentioned.

And wow, that is longer than my average RP post. Sorry if you got bored reading that/ tl;dr'd it.

Well.

I like a guy whose not a complete dufus to start off, but I also like a guy whose not so brainy that he likes to show me up or anything like that.

I like a guy whose:
- Romantic
- Funny but able to become serious when necessary
- Smells nice :] (I can't STAND B.O on anyone!)
- Someone who takes the time to look decent (by that, I don't mean like crazy good looks and perfect eye brows or anything like that. Just someone who doesn't throw on their clothes from the day before or do anything with their hair, regardless of length)
- Speaking of hair: short hair. (I just really dislike long hair on males. It's not fun to me).
- Adventerous
- Comfortable not doing anything
- OPEN-MINDED (in that he doesn't put down everyone he sees because of their appearance and whatnot)
- Someone who likes my animals (because I love them all)
- Someone who doesn't force me to do something that they know I do not want to do

You know... I could go on and on but I don't think I will. And that's just my perfect guy. I'm sure I can cope with more than a few changes in that (I think a perfect guy would be ... well, scary and a little abnormal).

i like guys who:
-are sweet and kind
-respectful of others feelings
-has to agree with me on some issues because i can be very opionated when i want to be
- doesnt mind my constant blushing...because i cant help it ((think hinata when she talks to naruto))
-waits for me to let him know when im ready to take things further but also isnt afraid to ask
-watches anime ((lol sorry but part of my life revolves around that))
- is smart enough to understand and contribute to inteligent conversation but also can have fun
-can tolerate my insanely hyper mode and not be dialing the number to an insane asylum afterwards
-doesnt mind if i draw....alot
when it comes to looks
-taller than me, im about 5''4 or 5''5
-hair color doesnt matter but i perfer black hair or dark hair
- i like guys with light eyes, theyre just more expressive
-not fat but definantly not looking like i could break them in half
-not preppy (bleh)
-longer hair (like emo style hair) but like i said it doesnt matter much to me

TwilightShade wrote:There is no such thing as love without some sort of physical attraction; it must exist in some amount in order for the love to be real.

That basically says it all. Physical attraction does play an integral role in choice of relationship. Personality can only take someone so far. As for me? I've found what I wanted, only drawbacks are music and television/movie choise. Minor point loss.

I listen to Screamo/Electionica, Metal, Indie, and alittle hip-hop. My 'signifigant' other listens to pop, hip-hop, and country.

Things as minute as those should not matter if everything else is in place, you think?

I'm so happy that everyone is spilling out what they really feel......most people couldn't do this in public without getting a B*slap by the opposite gender.... Ok now to my main posting point for this post.

IamSheena: When you said that yoiu could continue but you wouldn't i was a little comical but, i was also a little stupified....This Topic is for telling Everything that you want in a guy/girl, but i am still happy you posted....thats all that really counts. and i'm happy you took the time...

TwilightShade: I'm happy you made an above average length post, I love to encourage people to over acheive and i'm very happy that you took the time to post (This goes to everyone)

SilverNekoKitsune: Is there a reason or coincidence that everything you said about what you like in a guy is basically me except the fact that I have dirty Blonde hair and Medium Misty green eyes.....when you said that you acted almost like Hinata i was saying to myself "Ok god must be working for me now" Lol

Gogo Kunimura: Physical Proportions are very important, Nobody wants to go out with/marry some body that they think is Physically not Psycologically attractive, unless that person completely matches psycologically.

SilverNekoKitsune: Is there a reason or coincidence that everything you said about what you like in a guy is basically me except the fact that I have dirty Blonde hair and Medium Misty green eyes.....when you said that you acted almost like Hinata i was saying to myself "Ok god must be working for me now" Lol

uhm...i actually didnt do that on purpose! those things just happened to appy to me lol and dirty blond haie is cool too XP ooh and green eyes are pretty! lol sorry

you and i should be in a romance rp sometime.....i mean if you wouldn't mind .....(Blush Symbol where these parentheses are)

lol i wouldnt mind,just tell me when and i'll gladly join or private rp with you even

Riikano-Alinaris wrote:
Gogo Kunimura: Physical Proportions are very important, Nobody wants to go out with/marry some body that they think is Physically not Psycologically attractive, unless that person completely matches psycologically.

I suppose so. Everything is so complicated when it comes to relationships. Honestly, I do not believe in 'love at first sight'. Seems almost to astronomical. The billions of people that on this world? Odds are astounding to me that someone would indeed find that 'love at first sight' probability.

That is just me though. I guess I can be an introvert at times, or pessimistic. ......Or bi-polar. Who knows for that matter?

I think if two people have the exact same connections through personality, that there would almost have to be some kind of level of 'physical attraction' involved to maintain the bond.

that makes alotta sense and i agree with you on the love at first sight thing. i wanted to add some thing to my list
-when im obviously sad and say "its nothing" wich i most likely would, that even though i said that they would still try to find out what's wrong. i know that's annoying but it shows me how much they care:P
-isnt afraid of public displays of affection. im not talkin like full blown makeout session in the middle of the mall, but like thing like holding hands and light kissing has to be ok with them

Not trying to rain on your parade, guys, but a few things I want to point out to the OP and silver:

1) You're 15, she's 13. This isn't a major issue, but the age difference seems a little far apart for what I have traditionally seen IRL Your values and ideals may be different, and what you are looking for in a relationship might be as well.
2) Essentially, the real life equivalent of what you just did was a first meeting with the following,
"Hey, you're kinda cute. I like you."
"Really? That's so sweet. I love you too."
"Wanna go out?"
"Sure."
I'm not saying that things like this cannot happen, but you're treading on uncertain ground at the moment.
3) If you guys really want to go through with it, start in a normal private roleplay first, without romance. If the two of you still click, then go for it.
4) Get to know each other before you commit to anything. Hastily assembled couples based off of physical attraction alone don't last, ever. The same goes for sweeping a girl off of her feet.

If you read all that, and still feel the same as you did before, then you're good to go. My concern was that you might have made a hasty decision. Internet relationships are more challenging than real life ones, IMO, so act cautiously and carefully.

Otherwise, have fun you two. Live and learn, etc.

i never meant that, besises i dont do online stuff anymore. im only here for friends at the moment. besides any realtionship with me wouldnt invole phtsical atraction on the guy's side because im ugly. there. end of story. besides last time i rushed a relationship online it ended really ugly. so im just letting you know that i didnt mean it that way. :red: