Haha. I guess it could be considered that way, TG. Never would've considered it a step in dating, but it certainly could give two people something in common to talk about. I have many gamer friends. Unfortunately, the ratio of female and male is starkly different. However, should I ever have the interest in someone in that manner, being both a gamer on top of being a friend to being with is certainly a plus.
Granted, when I play, I don't often tell my gender, be it boy or girl. Nor age. Ambiguity is a defense mechanism, but it also leads to the fun of letting people guess and assume. Call me guy, call me girl. Call me straight, call me gay. I still snipe your ass. And if you're a good sport about it, I certainly wouldn't mind playing with you again and friend or foe.
The gaming world is a wide, open space full of many possibilities and interactions. And relationships, now that you called on it!
And you're right, Forky. Not all women are "weak." But as it's been passed down through history, many societies perceive the male figure as more dominant than the female. If you take a look at American history for example, during the times of Leave It To Beaver and housewives and white picket fences... all very cookie cutter... certain roles were expected to be filled.
Thankfully, the change in tide and perspectives these past few decades has allowed women to be more independent and true to themselves on many different levels. They are considered more on an equal level with men. However! Some men who still retain this old sense of roles, and what each gender should do, let it affect their personalities today in the most peculiar of fashions and settings.
Gaming is certainly one of those platforms where this mindset is known. The gaming world, supposedly male-dominant in population, is often perceived as a "men only" society. Like some fraternity. The sudden co-gender setting flabbergasts a good portion of them. Partially it's due to that old mindset. Other cases it can be blamed on that inferiority complex that many men don't (or refuse to) acknowledge. They say "it's a man's thing" or it's gender-specific.
However, do you know what sort of percentage of sales and popularity the gaming world could lose if it truly was a "men only" society? If it was only a "male" hobby to participate in? Hell I don't know myself but I imagine it would be a good chunk. Enough to burn them considerably.
If you look at the gaming world as just that: games, then you'd realize that FPS games aren't the only genre out there. They aren't the best sellers. Sure, they sell a lot---a lot---but they aren't the sole backbone of the "world." Other genres like kids games, arcade, RPGs, romance-based, etc. also encompass the gaming world, making it what it is. And a lot of those are played by the female gender. If you take them out (on the sole assumption that no male would ever play such a "girly" game) then half the production is stunted, and what remains will only serve to crumble the whole system. Like Jenga, if you take out certain essential pieces, you just might collapse the whole tower of blocks.
So, on that note, it should be recognized that yes, female gamers exist and are capable of beating a male gamer at his own game. You cannot get rid of female gamers, nor can you ignore them because they help what make the gaming world what it is today.
Also! Let's not forget that one of the most productive and popular gaming platforms, XBox, happens to promote female gamers. Granted, this is just advertisement to get in the crowd and rake in money, but putting that aside a moment, even the big corps recognize that both sexes participate in this same hobby and pass time. They even use women to advertise! Go log in now to Live and look up some of the game previews or cheats in the Marketplace. Who's your spokesperson? A woman.
Advertisement prop? Yes. But also proof that female gamers are out there and just as important to the gaming world as men. The ratio may be extremely unbalanced, but it's not a phenomenon.
....I think I just went off on a random tangent. What was I talking about again? Haha. I was probably supposed to respond to you, Forky, but I just took a side road without meaning to. XD I'm a dork.
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Trying (and probably failing) to get back on topic, let's just say that with female gamers around, in a way, it shows that women aren't inferior as a sex. Granted, some women still fill the roll as modeled by television in the past. As do some men. But that doesn't mean either gender is necessarily better than the other. Sure, there are some things that one gender can do that the other can't, but in terms of gaming, that shouldn't even be an issue. No one should feel threatened just because of what images and certain roles life and the media and whatever the hell else has conditioned us to believe as socially acceptable or appropriate. Gaming is gaming and should be enjoyed equally by everyone.
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m00se4brainz on Tue Jul 21, 2009 9:35 pm, edited 1 time in total.