**Note: I'm not separating quotes to be a nitpicker. I just need to organize stuff so I can reply accurately. x3**
Cloaked_Schemer wrote:No one said otherwise.
That's exactly what people are saying. They're saying it doesn't belong in the forums. That it belongs in IMs, Emails, and PMs.
I don't recall reading anything about one-on-one RPs being lesser or undeserving of the boards.
When mods and admins begin stating that they feel one-on-one RP has no place in forum threads (aka, does not belong here) it is incredibly discouraging.
It's only a discussion to see what everyone else thinks of them, just as they would with Vampire role plays, or war roleplays, only this case happens to be about one-on-one role plays.
This is not a discussion about RP genres. Vampires, Wars, Anime.. those are RP genres. One-on-one is only a description of the number of people. And the discussion is on whether or not it should be allowed in forums. Forums which advertise "RP Your Way." My point is, don't tell me I can RP how I want if mods are just going to openly talk badly about it.
All I'm saying is, you don't have to get so offended. We aren't attacking you. =3
:\ After modding one massive and one small RP messageboard, I find it to be rather unacceptable, and I want to make it known. I've been a managing part of a site overloaded with RP posts, so I'm familiar with the burden of numbers. In dealing with a smaller board, I've been more personally involved with the members. I'm not saying this crap because I'm "more qualified" to comment on crap. I'm just explaining why it struck me so strongly. It's offensive because people in charge are promoting the negative (and positive, I know) discussion of something that is perfectly acceptable--not only promoting it, but specifically posting against it. Sure, have the thread. But should mods/admins be posting about what does or does not deserve to exist in the forums, when we've basically all been told that what is being contested is actually perfectly okay? Imagine this example:
In a distant galaxy, I have created a comic-hosting website for amateur artists with the general rule of "all amateur comics, all the time." The website includes scanned comic book pages, digitally drawn comic book pages, web comics of all kinds, comics of all genres, etc etc. Later, I post a discussion thread titled "Webcomics: Does it belong in comic websites?" Then, in this thread, I open it by saying "I don't feel that webcomics belong here on this comic site. They're short, are more punchline than story, and are posted more regularly than full-length comic pages. What do you think?" A mixture of users and mods/admins post replies of mixed reactions. The point is, it is a website that claims to be for "all" of something. Then, the people who run the place express dislike in one of the things they claim to perfectly accept, and in this claim they state they feel it does not belong there (in this case should be moved only to private conversations either in PMs or away from the site entirely.)
Yes, it's insulting. Yes, it's discouraging. Yes, I am irritated. No, I'm not flipping a lid xD If I thought someone was actually going to up and ban it? I'd take my RP elsewhere. I put a lot of work into my posts, and I wouldn't waste them on a place that denies my RP for personal biases. Luckily, that's not the case.
**Edit: for a better example.**