Well, now that I've got your attention, I guess the title of this discussion thread isn't a complete lie.
Today I'd like to bring up the subject of cursing in writing, roleplays, what have you. Two notes before we begin:
- (1) Any following language in this thread must only be used to make your point; don't just swear for the sake of swearing.
(2) I'm not about to let this thread degenerate into a flame-fest on who was brought up how, and why that shapes their opinion.
Now that that's out of the way, where do you stand on vulgarity in roleplays? Fuck, shit, crap, damn, hell, all those sorts of words?
Myself, it all compartmentalizes nicely.
- (1) In real life, I don't make a habit of swearing aloud. I've got the capacity for such language, of course, but it never really comes out of my mouth -- least of all at someone. That's not to say I look down my nose at people who do drop some bombs here and there, but I just don't do it myself.
- (b) On that note, however, I do swear occasionally in the OOC chat. It becomes more of a stream of consciousness for me -- again, I have the capacity for such language, but it just doesn't come out vocally.
(2) In writing, my general rule of thumb is I won't go out of my way to avoid having a character curse, but I won't go out of my way to have a character curse.
- (b) For example: My character Darrel Mathers could, at any given day, make a sailor blush. However, if you were brutally murdered, brought back to life and then encountered the 17-year-old daughter of your mortician once reanimating at the morgue you sure wouldn't be saying 'oh, gosh darn and golly!'
- (c) On the other hand, my character Wren Mishoyu is an easygoing, low-maintenence genius who (so far) has had life pretty hitch-free. To write her saying -- "woah, what the fuck is all this shit?" not only doesn't fit her character, but is generally completely against what she's about. See what I mean?
So yeah. Also, there's something else I'm going to bring up.
I see kids doing it around here, and it annoys me even though I used to do it:
"Oh, cr*p! Oh, sh*t! You b*stard!"
Believe it or not, this irks more than the general @#$%@! approach. Although I respect that you're censoring yourself (however briefly) simply omitting one character isn't fooling anyone, and it makes you look like you're a little too young to be writing such language -- like you stole your dad's shotgun and you're just firing at cars, instead of people -- all the while terrified but excited to see what sort of damage you can do. If you must use language like that, then don't namby-pamby around with it.
^That said, I can understand if (like in some cases on network television) it's required that such shoddy editing be done. Still feels like you're a 7-year-old packin' heat, though.
Heh. With those points made, I have to go back and make a blanket statement:
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Call me old-fashioned if you want, but with all the other words in the English language one's disposal, I just don't think the "Goddam!"s and the "Jesus Christ!"s are necessary. Those are things I draw the line at in writing -- and, again, while I don't elevate myself over people who do say that stuff, it's just what I do.
So yeah! That about concludes it from my end.
What about you guys?
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