Hi Rin,
I can fully understand your frustration with the site. However there are some points to make, not everyone, and this includes some of our best writers, have at best intermittent access to the internet and some even more than me have less time available to post.
If it helps I looked at your RP it's an extremely good idea, I loved it, however I do not feel that I have anything that I could usefully contribute to it. I would not want to post something that doesn't meet my own quite exacting standards, and that would happen were I to try and contribute to something that I didn't fully relate to. Now you could say that that is what RP is all about but then as I keep telling people I am a terrible role player, but a slightly less bad writer.
Personally I contribute to what touches me on some level and leave things that do not. Don't make the mistake of thinking I am making a value judgement, I am not, I am making an emotional judgement, it's not that I think one game or idea is good and another is bad just that some fire my imagination and some don't.
I don't know what activity stats are available but I wouldn't be surprised that out of all the members of the site, there are probably not more than a handful that are regularly active.
I sometimes wonder if it is the very quality of some of the posts that stops some people contributing. It can be rather difficult to match up to some of the posts, I know I have trouble with that.
Looking at the games I am involved in, there are currently two of them one Continuing Legend has recently been kick started back to life and as I watch it is dying again. Two of the major contributors have almost no internet access a lot of the time so their posts are erratic the others seem to have simply given up. And the other The Almost Modern Fantasy seems to have ground down as well, people dived in with some great ideas and have simply stopped posting. I don't know if it is because they are no longer interested or have other demands on their time. I don't know.
If you do decide to join other places, and there is no reason not to, don't give up entirely on RPGateway because it is people like you with vision and ideas that we need to keep going.
Grim (The rather depressed now)
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