If Stupidity got us into this mess, then why can't it get us out?
Name: Yuda Lee (Pronounced Yoo-dah)
Nicknames: Her peers usually call her by her last name to avoid butchering her given name, even if it's only two syllables.
Age: 21, she met the requirements at 18 to attend Fulton University and has been studying here for three years ever since.
Gender: Female.
Birth Date: September 16th, 1995
Sign: Virgo
Sexuality: Lesbian
Ethnicity: Korean
Major: Social Psychology
Minor: Applied Behavior Analysis
Occupation: Yuda is currently a cashier at some random boutique in town because she was in need of some extra cash for all the expenses college came with.
Yuda had a relatively normal upbringing. Though, of Korean descent, she was born and raised in America with the original ideals her parents grew up with a mix of the ever evolving culture of America. Her parents were pretty conservative, but that didn't stop her from expanding her mind site and becoming more tolerant of different things. It would've been almost impossible for her to keep her parent's ideals since she had been growing up in LA with its mixture of different ethnic backgrounds and sexual orientations. She can't recall anything major happening to her in her early stages of childhood. She got up in the morning, went to elementary school then went home did her homework and hung out in the living room with whoever was in there at the time. She developed a taste for literature since sometimes no one would be in the living room and they didn't have a TV at the time so she had to occupy herself somehow. At one point in her life, she even considered being a teacher. At eight years old this sounded like a great idea, until she enrolled in middle school and saw how tough it was to keep a whole classroom of students quiet enough to teach what you're supposed to be teaching. Around 6th grade, a friend of her asked her if she had a crush on any boys; this made Yuda think, she had never really had a crush on a boy. At that time in her life, she was too busy reading books to even worry about crushes or even if she really liked boys at all, that part of her life wouldn't come up until a little later down the road. Middle school was just as uneventful as elementary school, though Yuda had also taken up a liking for video games. She was too young to match the upkeep with the hobby, but she would continuously play the games she did have on her older console throughout the entire night-that obviously got her into a lot of trouble.
Yuda's personality didn't really start taking shape until her high school years. She still didn't like boys and she didn't even know why but she honestly could not care less about things like that. She was semi-popular, no one really disliked her and she really didn't dislike anyone either. Unlike most kids her age, Yuda actually kind of enjoyed high school. She would always go out with her friends, even if her parents said no; that just meant she had to sneak out the window. Yea, she had a rebellious phase but so does everyone. It's until she hears the word lesbian her freshman year. Her friends were gossiping about some other girl who might be it and this was the first time Yuda had heard the word. Apparently it was when girls like girls. It got Yuda thinking. Was she lesbian? She had never really liked guys at all and she always found herself flustered when a woman would get undressed in a movie. The thought of holding hands and kissing another girl wouldn't didn't even sound that bad. And that bargain her journey of homosexuality throughout high school. She made out with a few girls, she even got serious with one. That relationship didn't last though, her friends and family didn't even know and that kind of restricted what they could do openly. One day, her parents asked when she would get a boyfriend for the millionth time, out of annoyance Yuda said she didn't even like boys. Did Yuda's sexuality clash with her parents conservative ways? Yes. Did the family get over it eventually? Yes. Did it cause a divide between her and her extended family? Yes. Did she care? No. After the whole I'm a lesbian debacle, Yuda had to start cutting across the bad part of town to make it to her part time job. She made a few friends, they were all kind of thugs though. They weren't all bad necessarily, just misunderstood. This got Yuda thinking, why doesn't anyone try to understand people like this. Well, fortunately for Yuda, they do. This was the nail in the coffin, Yuda wanted to study psychology and become an affordable therapist for troubled teens. Luckily, she was accepted into her first choice Fulton University. It was expensive but her and her parents managed to afford it. She's been attending the school for 3 years now and it was fun at first but she honestly can't wait for it to be over and done with.
Quirks//Habits//Oddities:
- Picks nails when stressed - Yuda doesn't know when she started this habit but whneveres she's stressed she picks at her nails and that's all she'll be able to focus on.
- Finger taps when bored - Yuda usually taps on whatever surface is near here when she's bored. It's most likely a tune of a song or just absent minded taping while spaced out.
- Hates not knowing things - Call it being nosy if you want but Yuda really hates when she's not in the know on something. It'll gnaw at her on the inside and bug her until she finds out.
- Finds if difficult to work when other people move around - When there's too much kinetic enegery being released in a room where Yuda is trying to focus, she can't do the focusing.
Good personality traits
◇ Adaptable ◆ Diplomatic ◇ Efficient ◆ Punctual ◇ Self-reliant ◆ Poised ◇
◇ Adaptable ◆ Diplomatic ◇ Efficient ◆ Punctual ◇ Self-reliant ◆ Poised ◇
Bad personality traits
▼ Abrasive △ Money-minded ▼ Extreme △ Reactive ▼
▼ Abrasive △ Money-minded ▼ Extreme △ Reactive ▼
Personality:
Yuda isn't talkative but she isn't completely shy either, she can hold a conversation when necessary but she also hopes necessary isn't often. Yuda's personality contradicts a lots, she likes friend but she hates the tedious process of making them; she prefers childhood friends since it was easier to form a friendly relationship when you're only a kid. She's sort of abrasive, not quite in the sense where she'll tell you to fuck off as soon as your approach her, but in the sense that she will try to finish the conversation as quickly as possible if she doesn't know you that well. Of course, Yuda excels in situations that don't require you to be social. She's efficient and punctual, because making a good first impression is always a priority even if she won't end up talking to the people for more than three minutes. Yuda can adapt well to any given working environment, unfortunately this trait does not apply to social situations where her personality clashes with another. Because she's so keen on avoiding to avoid people she doesn't know, she's become self-reliant to evade confrontation; if Yuda wants something then she will do everything in her own power to get it.
Another contradiction in the mind of Yuda Lee is that she is very diplomatic. Of course, this was a trait she developed rather than a trait she was born with due to the fact that she wants to help troubled kids when she graduates from college. She can defuse most heated situations. Although, she can either escalate or deescalate a situation depending on how the events play out. She is very reactive and very extreme which is ironic because she think she's a pretty poised person. The situation at hand can either dissipate quickly or have fuel added to the flame. This is a side of her that's rarely ever shown though. Usually, Yuda remains level-headed and calm because half the time she doesn't have the courage to butt in. But if she ever did butt into a situation, that's her vision of how it could possibly go. She hopes that her efficiency will aid her if the time to pull people apart ever comes.
Yuda is a Scrooge McDuck with money, it's just nice to have. Her parents aren't that well off and attending college is supper expensive for some reason. So, if there's opportunity to make money Yuda will take it. Need her to sabotage someone? As long as there's a hefty price tag, and if it isn't a friend, you've got Yuda as your personal hitwoman. She also manages her money very well. Her efficiency comes in handy when she needs micromanage her money and since she's so punctual and poised she's usually given raises for jobs after a bunch of begging and some not so subtle hint dropping. This may lead people to believe that Yuda's world just revolves around endless stacks of cash, but they'd be wrong there. Yuda actually hates people who only care about money. Yea, money is nice because it helps pay the bills, but money is probably last on Yuda'a list of attention priorities. There's family, school, social circles, her sorority, money is kind of just the beams that keep all those things held up.
Greatest joys in life:
Family An obvious answer, Yuda loves her family. They have supported through everything and even accepted her when she came out about her sexuality. She values them a lot and she doesn't like to think about where she would be without them. Theta Chi Yuda thinks Theta Chi is just a second word for family. You won't hear her say it slot but she loves the girls. Like her family, she does not know where she would be without them. Literally. She would've probably gotten lost on campus. They've help her out a lot these 3 years and she cherishes them for that. Money What cann she say? money makes the world go round'.
Greatest fears:
Losing FamilyOf course, one of her greatest fears in life is losing one of her greatest joys. Yuda hates thinking about a future without her family by her side and we'll leave it at that.SpidersNasty, creepy, crawly, no. Yuda doesn't know what God was thinking when he allowed spiders to walk the earth. Something with that many eyes and that many legs obviously wasn't meant to walk the earth naturally and Yuda will stand by that.
Life philosophy:
"A wise man should have money in his head, but not in his heart."
❤Video Games
❤Sleep
❤Chocolate
❤Literature
❤Psychology
❤Helping
❤The Indoors
✘ Dadk Chocolate
✘ Exercise
✘ Waking up
✘ Outdoors
✘ Parties
✘ Slow internet
✘Losing
Thoughts on Greek Life:
The completion part, Yuda ignores. Petty rivalries are boring to Yuda. The friendship part? She is all for. Yuda loves the bonding part the Greek System enforces and is all for it since it makes that one step of making a friend a little easier. She can only help the freshmen during rush because that'll refine her skills for her desired career path; it's also cute to have a little sister. And a bonus are all the cute girls in the other sororities Yuda gets to see. So, overall, Yuda enjoys it though but there are some parts she can do without.
Plans for after college:
Yuda hopes to become a successful therapist for troubled youth. From what she's seen, a lot of them can't afford the help they need so her goal is to make her own affordable business and hopefully branch it out to help more and more young people.
Build:
5'8
120lbs
Curvy, the only thing maintaining her figure is walking around the campus and the lack of money to afford junk food.
Hair Colour: Brown
Style: Yuda doesn't wear anything too extravagant. Anything she wears is casual on a regular basis. Except if anything calls for something fancy she usually doesn't go all out.
