Name:
Delilah Ray Everly
Nickname:
Lila
Age:
24
D.O.B:
March 24, 1993
Gender:
Female
Sexual Orientation:
Bisexual
Occupation:
Sugar Baby
Manager at ____
Hometown:
____, MA (0-18)
New York, NY (18-22)
Los Angeles, CA (22-present)
Likes:
Soul food, Tattoos (though she's too squeamish around needles to get one herself), Drake, California, mental health days, marijuana, freshly baked chocolate chip cookies, expensive perfume, the beach, urban areas, being in control, candles, dogs, art, museums
Dislikes:
Jelly doughnuts, other people's opinions, people that lecture, when her skin acts up, waiting (in traffic, on line, etc), hot dogs, watching sports/playing sports, men with huge egos, girls that constantly talk about having daddy issues, religion, humidity
Emotionally Guarded: Lila is reserved around most people, and doesn't open up very easily. She has always equated being emotional to being weak, so not only is she not the person who's sappy, romantic, or easy to have her heartstrings tugged at, but she also grimaces at people who do. She often comes off as being cold and bitter becomes of the attitude that she has adopted to combat her emotions, and she recognizes this. She knows that being the bitch who's constantly rolling her eyes and telling people to fuck off isn't the most appealing persona to take on, but she doesn't know how to find a middle ground between that and being too emotional. It's something that she has been working on since moving to California almost two years ago, so people who have only met her recently know a version of Delilah that's a bit more pleasant and laid back, but she assumes her old personality around people who only knew that side of her, just because she's not comfortable with admitting that she's trying to change to anyone.
Sarcastic/Witty: She has a bad tendency of being sarcastic with almost everything she says. It's hard for her to hide her feelings when she thinks that someone is dumb, or they asked a stupid question. She can come across as being callous and harsh because of this tendency, but she usually means it to be somewhat amusing, even if it doesn't always translate as that. As well as some people finding her sarcasm to be inappropriate, her sense of humor in general tends to be dark, sexual and all around inappropriate. Tying into her sarcasm, if you find that kind of humor to be funny, it's easier to admit that she's witty and quick with her comebacks too.
Loyal: Despite her flaws and her fairly abrasive personality, the one thing that remains true about Lila is that if she's your friend, she's your friend. She's very loyal, very supportive, and can be that "best girl friend" that ever girl desires. She'll curse your ex out in the street if she sees them, she'll spend an hour doing your makeup before a date, and she'll stay up all night with you eating Ben & Jerry's after a bad breakup, even if she tells you that she's going to slap you if you say the word "love" one more time. Her loyalty is strong with those that she trusts, but once it's broken, it's very hard to regain.
Blunt: Lila tells it like it is. She isn't afraid to offend people, and does not water herself or her opinions down to make other people feel more comfortable. She dislikes dramatics and people who she tends to deem crybabies, and isn't afraid to hurt people's feelings with what she says. It's another one of her less-flattering traits, but then again, it doubles as her being someone who is honest and upfront with her believes. She's unapologetic and true to what she believes in.
Artistic: Art has always been her strength. She was never great at math, or science, or writing essays or reading books, but she has always been good at art.
Making sculptures, painting portraits, drawing with pencils... you name it and she's probably better at it than you are. Her go-to medium are graphite pencils,
but when she has the creative urge, she'll spend some time doing other things. She likes the idea of being able to translate thoughts into images, and has always been a visual learner.
Independent: She has always valued the idea of being self-sufficient. She dislikes having to lean on anyone for anything, and it has pushed her to become as emotionally and financially independent as possible. Additionally, she has a dominant nature to her that extends outside of the bedroom.
Sexual: She wouldn't call herself a sex addict, but Delilah is definitely a very sexual person. Her sense of humor reflects that, and she tends to flirt with people constantly just to make them uncomfortable or see what their reaction is.
History:
Delilah is one of two children, and she comes from a middle class family. Her parents, Fiona and Donovan Everly, met during college, where they were both training to become teachers. Their chemistry was always good, and Delilah is lucky enough to say that she has parents who she could never envision getting divorced. They have small arguments here and there, but are a pretty good example of what true love is supposed to look like. In addition to being a healthy couple, she would say that they were good parents to her and her younger sister, Elizabeth, age 21, too. The person that she had the most conflict with growing up was that sister, though. Lizzie had a very different personality than her, and it often left Delilah feeling oddly overshadowed by a sister years younger than her. Her sister was always the one who was vibrant, outgoing, and full of life. Things came easy to her: be it academics, making friends, and playing sports. She was popular, and as someone who comfortably into the middle of the social spectrum, it was annoying to constantly see her sister doing things that she never did at her age. What was more infuriating was that she felt like her parents favored her. Delilah could give you a list of examples for why she felt this way, and she didn't think that her parents neglected her in favor of favoring her sister, but she insists that they gave Lizzie special treatment.
The example that she feels most hurt by (and its one that she would never reference because it's something that brings out emotions in her that she refuses to admit to having) was that as a junior and senior in high school, Delilah experienced major depression. It came on suddenly and for no specific reason, but it was something that she couldn't shake on her own. Her parents began taking her to a psychiatrist that her pediatrician referred her to, but since the doctor was out of network on their insurance plan, the cost to see her was tremendous and overwhelming. The issue was, that Delilah couldn't connect with any of the other doctors that her insurance plan agreed to cover, and having to deal with trying so many out pushed her deeper and deeper into a pit of isolation and anger. Her parents let her continue to see her original psychiatrist for a while after it was clear that none of the others were working out, but when her sister was accepted into a private school a few towns over and her parents realized that they would be tight on funds with the tuition bill that came with it, they decided that Delilah needed to "grow up" and deal with seeing a cheaper doctor on their insurance plan. It was a breaking point for her, because while depression made her feel more selfish and targeted and emotional, even to this day, where she'll admit that she's recovered from the illness, she thinks that it was an incredibly shitty and unfair position for her parents to put her in. It's the event that she always thinks back on when she considers texting them to ask for money, and when she considers accepting money when they text her to make sure that she's doing all right. It's why she made sure that she got a full scholarship to NYU when she went there for undergrad, and it's why she's currently working as a sugar baby to pay off her loans from her master's in art therapy that she received at Loyola Marymount University in Los Angeles. Though she visits her family for the holidays and they visit her, and for the most part, their relationship has normalized, Delilah still holds a grudge over that encounter, and it's why she was so insistent on living on her own and becoming an independent person. She never wants to rely on anyone again, or give anyone the power to make her feel unworthy of anything.
Physical Description:
Delilah is 5'8 and weighs 125 lbs. She has a slender figure, with skin that she works hard to keep smooth and even, and what most people would describe as a pretty face. Her hair is naturally curly and brown, and currently hangs at a near-chest length when it is straightened. Her physical appearance reflects her mixed ethnicity.
Her mother is 50% Mexican, 25% Native American and 25% Italian, and her father is 100% African American.
Face Claim:
Naressa Valdez
