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Katharos wrote:This really should not be about what other people say or think or tell you. You should change because you want to, not because you have someone like the previous poster saying that hey you are fat lets go running.
Yes help from another person helps, but ti should come out of you.
And please whoever says that personality doesn't matter is just silly.
I rather have a fat boyfriend than a mean/jerk/ass. A fat person can change an ass was born and will die like that.
Well that is my opinion...
Katharos wrote:
You cannot say ohh look I am skinny and so lovable because of it, or please look past my obesity and love me.
What people have to understand is that a balance of a healthy mind and a healthy body is best. If you do not have a healthy body you cannot possibly have a healthy mind. I am not saying you are crazy or delusional or on the brink of suicide, but that your self esteem is lower than it should be.
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Exactly my point! How can someone else come to love you if you can't even take the time out to love yourself? One person can only give out the love of one person, not two. He/she isn't suddenly going to love you as themselve and for your self. Its not possible.
Some fat people don't understand the damage they are doing, especially if their young, it's not about force it's about getting someone you love out of the realm of gluttony.That "change because you want to" preach is a fairytale. You have to have something to change for...when is it not for someone else, even if it not at the time their going to realize "Hey, boys/girls/mum/ectr will like me more skinner" and get even more motivated. Everyone affected by words...everyone, no exceptions. How they affect you is up to you.
Honesty is needed, whether they take the chance to change is up to them you can't evoke change, change is constant and natural.if they don't change then they chose this themselves, you're safe from "I thought you where my friend, why didn't you help me!?" screams some people try to pull. fat people do tend to have self esteem issues and the fact is, their always going to face flak from society, I don't mean TV or magazines I mean the people, actual beings they interact with who grow close enough to will un-doubtly haze them. I don't know about girls...me and my friends don't hang out with fat girls-that sure sounds shallow-but seriously, I mean...I've never seen a fat guy who hasn't got style or money get a good girl. It different with boys, all the ones I know are young and desperate but of course the smart and/or handsome ones will not go near them without crap self esteem themselves-personal experience..infact I've seen this happen about three times and yes, I'm close friends with them all so I know what self esteem they have and their issues-
To be honest in England I've noticed a mass amount of fat kinsmen wandering about when on my daily strolls, it seems to be more women that are getting fat here but boy have the men that do get fat gotten big. It's most likely my area...as always...anyway..fast era. Bestowed, enjoy it my children...however you like to enjoy it that is, by partaking in it,laughing at it or solving it.
Katharos wrote:I rather have a fat boyfriend than a mean/jerk/ass. A fat person can change an ass was born and will die like that.
Well that is my opinion.
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Katharos wrote:Actually not to burst anyone's bubble about ancient times and the what nots, women were bigger than what society calls healthy these days. It was because of their need to bear more children and the hard labors (not child labor..the other kind)
women did not become as skinny as you see on magazines until the nineties.
The fact is that everybody is different. You cannot possibly expect a Hispanic woman to have the same body type than an Asian.
Not everyone can walk two blocks to the store and be fit.
Some people are tired from work, from children, from everyday stress that the last thing they have in their mind is getting up and going for walk when they need to pay their bills the next day.
Please do not say that its utter bull crap because other people have other problems. Maybe at home they are abused or they have stress that you probably cannot even imagine.
They are not you and do not have your problems. They have their own and people have to understand that and instead of standing around judging and giggling and poking jokes and feeling self righteous because they happen to be skinny, they should try to help.
"hey ma'am Ill babysit while you go out for a walk"
Also a heads up for anyone out there who thinks they are oki dokey because they happen to be slim..Umm you might want to get yourself checked...sometimes you can be diabetic and high cholesterol..even if you are skinny.
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gaiadarkstar wrote:people are too worried about being "politically correct" and all that. Ugh I hate politics becuase it is so fake now. No matter what a person promises they almost never come through with any of it, sorry that is another topic. As to the comment "It is easy to lose a lot of weight" That is not true for everyone. It has been proven in tests that it is easier for men to lose weight than women. Plus I actually know people that have tried everything short of surgery and can't lose the weight. I mean I may not be humongous but I am a little overweight and I took a class were we had trainers and everything and I tried my hardest for the duration of the class and never lost any weight. I don't eat that much in general and I almost never drink pop. I mostly stick to water or milk and I can't eat anything really rich so fudge is definately out. I do like some chocolate and probably eat more sweats than I should but it is pretty frustrating that even when I was really pushing myself I couldn't even lose more than two pounds.
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Gabriel_Whist wrote:SoCal American here. Honestly, I don't see that many obese people around here. There are some fatties, but not an overwhelming number of them. To be honest, I could stand to lose a few pounds myself, and I already have lost some of them. America may be massively obese as a country, but Idk, Cali is pretty chill, most of us that have a few extra pounds are just stoners who eat to many munchies, and most of us still work out and excersize to keep it in control. For example, I have a slight gut, but I'm well muscled beneath the layer of fat, and I still run and work out three times a week.
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Litria Death wrote:Hmm... Weight is such an issue in the USA... So bad that, while looking through my friend's 'Like' list on Facebook, one of them was, "I'm an American, LOL, J/K, I'm Skinny!". It's really a joke to people who've been to our country and saw all our... obese(sp?) cititzens... I mean, it's embarrassing in a way, but, I shouldn't really be talking...(Currently, 9 lbs overweight...I know it isn't too bad, but it counts with what I'm saying...) I really think we Americans should do something about this, because, sometimes, it's not the person's fault(please don't jump me by saying it is, because in some cases, yes.) I mean, Mickey D's has been proven to have sumbliminal messages in their commericals, and Burger King, and, well, pretty much every other gay-ass fast food resturant. So, maybe that comes into play... I'm not saying that's the cause for everyone, no, so don't think I'm saying that. I just wanted to point it out... Those sumbliminal messages are freaky, man... (Yes, call me a crazy hippie if you want...)
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