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almostinsane wrote:So, my question is twofold:
1. Is it moral to engage in polygamy/group marriage and, if so, under what circumstances or understandings?
2. Does the government either at the federal or local level have the right to outlaw it?
Aniihya wrote:Polygamy was only outlawed because Christians said it was wrong. Even with polygamy illegal, polyamory still exists.
cucumbersome wrote:Group marriage is one of those things that should obviously be allowed in theory, but because of the way people are, are better not allowed in practice. I think it needs to wait until we have gender equality so strong that almost no woman believes she is worth less than a man. People can consent to being abused, and if one desires to prevent abuse that means outlawing situations that are often abusive even though that is unfair to to a minority that does not abuse or get abused.
I feel the same way about prostitution: in principle there is nothing wrong with being paid for sex, but in practice there is so much human trafficking and abuse itās a bad idea. Too bad for the minority of truly voluntary prostitutes... Again, itās something that will need to wait until there is strong gender equality.
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Greek and Roman men were not allowed to be married to more than one wife at a time and not meant to cohabit with concubines during marriage, and not even rulers were exempt from these norms. That these facts have generally received little attention and occasioned no surprise among historians specializing in this period bespeaks a remarkable lack of cross-cultural awareness. Greco-Roman monogamy may well appear unexceptional from a modern Western perspective but was far from common at the time. My paper seeks to put this institution in context.
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Aniihya wrote:Stating two jews being polygamous does to prove anything against my theory.
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almostinsane wrote:I believe there's something I read sometime ago that presents an interesting viewpoint with regards to biblical polygamy is that it was permitted, but not necessarily aproved of and eventually discouraged/banned in later books. The stories about it often do not paint good pictures of it if I recall correctly.
On-topic, I see that the marriage laws are written with monogamous unions in mind. Still, I'd like to hear people's thoughts on getting rid of them save for the age of consent and other laws protecting children and people being coerced or forced into marriages and replacing them with private contracts.
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As to laws? Honestly, I'd rather the whole concept of legal marriage just be tossed out the window. Marriage, what it means and who can do it should all be spiritual matters, to be taken up with yourself and your god(s), and the government should have no say in it all.
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almostinsane wrote:There are sites that make arguments from that basis, if you'd like the links.
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The_13th_Doctor wrote:I agree that the potential for abuse is there, but to say that it shouldn't happen because of the potential abuse is like saying nobody should watch a war movie because it might give you PTSD (or whatever it's called these days). What if a woman who is convinced of her inferiority to man sees a woman who is in a polygamous relationship, as the aggressor? Here's this powerful, professional woman with two husbands, both of which are stay at home types that take care of her kids and home... wouldn't that be a great example to that poor woman who is still put upon?
I see prostitution in the same way... to say that is is bad because of the evil things people do to perpetuate it, then you might as well say Kentucky Fried Chicken should also be illegal. People are people, no matter what's illegal or not.
The_13th_Doctor wrote:In fact, I would go so far as to say that if prostitution were legal, it would be safer, and you'd see a drop in the human trafficking angles.
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cucumbersome wrote:Probability matters to determine the strength of the measures to take. The probability of a war movie giving you PTSD is (I assume) lower than the probability of cigarettes giving you cancer, which is why there is a warning on the latter but not on the former.
cucumbersome wrote:The woman with two husbands could be a role model, but as things are there will be many more opposite role models canceling out the benefit of allowing her to live her way in a legally recognized way.
cucumbersome wrote:Thatās what we thought when we made it legal in the Netherlands. It didnāt work out so well. Of course circumstances changed to make human trafficking easier: the further the European Union is integrated and extended, the more exploitable poor women live within its borders, and the more difficult it gets to prevent women from outside the EU to be smuggled in. But I donāt think that change in circumstances is enough to explain how much worse things got.
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